What do I do tonight when I get home? Pretend it never happened? Bringing it up will likely start a fight. Dr says not to bring something up if it isn't going to help but ignoring it feels weird. Weird is good right? Better to be a peacemaker vs right?
Wrong. Appeasement NEVER works. After you've read either DB or DR (I recommend DR), pick up the book "Boundaries," by Townsend. Your wife is doing what she's doing for the same reason that dogs lick themselves.
