You are a parent to these boys and part of their family. W has no say it, it is a fact. Whether your wallet and salary are open is irrelevant, you are their dad and a good one too, from your interactions and description we can see the love and care.
At the age of your two boys they have a say in their R with you too. None of you need W to let you do anything, buy shoes, clothes, go bowling or eat pizza. W is the wayward one here and her interactions with the family are out of kilter.
OD have a career you like.
You are being guided well by your fellow DBers.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 02/10/1502:50 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW