So he just texted me that he can't take the kids this week but that he'll take them next Monday.

I'm really infuriated that everything has now come down to his convenience and I'd like to say how offensive I find that but I'm so fired up at the moment that I don't think I can do it effectively.

Can anyone offer me a script for how to deal with this? I foresee the next 10 years of my life being me arranging my life to suit his, never able to GAL freely because I always have to accommodate him, and it is breeding ENORMOUS resentment that will make it hard to treat him with detachment.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.