Sorry to be off for a bit, I implemented a load of 180s and thought I had fixed everything! Lol what a fool I was! Wife denied it was an emotional affair and said it was purely physical and she was having an affair with herself.
Well today she went upstairs when I was in the house and I looked at her phone, I know I shouldnt have but I couldn't resist... So there are a litany of calls with the OP and then I read their messages... I only briefly looked as when I got to one from last night that said "I've never felt like this for anyone else" I just hit the floor... There were other things said "trust me I know what I'm doing" and him declaring unrequited love for her.
So is it time for last resort?
T:13 yrs M:11 Me: 36 Her: 33 Living apart Her having affair She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015 3 kids D13 S10 D10 D not mentioned yet