She needs to know the net pay because the state I live in uses both parents' net pay in some sort of formula to determine what the child support amount should be.
I honestly don't give a cr@p about any of that stuff. What matters to me is the marriage.
The part I am struggling the most with is the "doing nothing" action that I am using not. It seems defeating and feels like she has me over a barrel with the D. If I do not agree to it then it goes to lawyers the I will surely lose out more than with this agreement.
I don't like it and have more to give, but I don't have any other options. She is done and I can't stop it. I need to just keep moving forward.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15