Oh wow

So I posted about Valentines day and my plans, I actually just order me 2 shirts- gifts to me:)

S14 was asking me what I wanted for Valentines day, this is probably something his dad has put him up to..

So do I buy a present and card for H just in case? Or if he does get me something, just say Thank You? Last year was horrible after the fact, the day of was good I got flowers,,,,then BAM found out OW did also a few days later...anyway

If he gets me something or acknowledges the day,,,how do I respond...Ive made my plans for myself..just beacuse I dont want to make it a sit around type of day cause I dont want to get all down in the dumps...


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW