Barry, you are among friends here. You can come here to rant, vent or just to find comfort. I know it is hard for you to understand it, but we have all been where you are at.
This being said, we will not bull$hit you and you can expect friendly 2x4s from us.
The sad truth is at this time it really does not matter if it is MLC or not that your W is battling with. Your path should be the same.
You need to detach (easier said than done, I know...), as soon as you let go of your need to know, a HUGE weight will be lifted from your shoulders. The sooner you realize this, the easier it will be for you. I hope you come to the place of detachment soon, because it will do wonders for your sanity.
Why have you moved out? That is a big nono. NEVER move out. If she has a problem, let her move out. So my suggestion is, move back in ASAP.
By now you have surey figured out, that the person you knew as your wife is gone and for all intents and purposes could as well have been kidnapped by aliens. You have to remember that that somewhere deep there is still the core of your wife...
