Jbird. Your wife sounds like she is mentally unwell. It is better for you and your daughters to be away from her. Often when someone has so many issues the more empathetic partner becomes the "fixer". This can create a codependent relationship. Not healthy for either

. Have you read Codepedent no more? I think if you focus on healing yourself that you will begin to see all of your W's issues threw a new lens.

Wonka posted a post on boundaries. Have a look at it when you get a chance.

Remember that no matter what you will be ok. You have lots of support here if you need it. Keep GAL. You deserve more than what you have been accepting.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.