Why does your wife need to know your monthly net pay? As long as you can pay your half of the bills and meet child support payments, she doesn't need to know anything else, in my opinion.

I understand the feeling of disappointment. Don't lose hope. By all means, drop the rope, but don't lose hope until you're prepared to move on. You can move forward, and lead a happy, healthy life, without moving on.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014