Old dog seeks new trick 8

[gan]

OD, I appreciate there is more to tell re the most recent conversation with W...but so far, I'm with Toots. It's interesting, I think, that she would say "she still wants [you] to be part of the 'family' as a father to the boys" right after you tell her that you might not contribute so much $ to the joint account. Had she said anything like that previously?

In terms of job - please, please, please - base your decision on what you want to do in your life regardless of W. Based on what you write above it sounds like it might not be for you even the interview did go well.