You'll be proud and happy about yourself one day when you read your old sitch Susana.
Btw as far as I'm concerned from what you said how H is talking about S and D there will be a lot more to it. Not sure if he realizes what's coming or if he plans his exit already. But my W is threatening me constantly with action but so far no moves. But it's just a question of time. Real S is absolutely inevitabke at this point frown
You mentioned H went out a lot and BD came out of the blue. I don't wanna rise concerns but is there a chance he cheated on you with a one night stand or maybe getting very close to AP while partying, which then caused the instant change/catalyst for his inner feelings?
It's just an idea, but the fact that it came out of the blue is kind of weird.
Don't give it too much thought bc in the end it won't matter at all bc no matter what happened, it was on its way and you have to see this as a chance!

Last edited by Complex; 02/10/15 08:23 AM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15