I'm sorry I responded to one of your older posts, so my post doesn't make any sense for what you are currently thinking about.
I personally would go to family C in your situation, I would use all of the DB skills you have learned. If your W asks you to do it's okay IMO, but wouldn't push her into it.
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together