Read Sandi's 37 rules before you react to OM situation or any situation. Most likely after reading the rules you will decide not to react. I know it's hard my W has had multiple A-s. My W is D ing me for a man who has multiple domestic cases, attempted strangulation, drug related charges. (22 court cases in one state alone and he's lived in two other states)
Work on yourself so that you can give yourself the best chance of reuniting! If you don't reunite you will be better prepared for a new R.
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together
