KGirl - letting the past go

[Mozza]

Oh well, why not. Let us know what he replies. Vets, especially 25yearsmlc, tell us not to dwell too much on the whys. To me, it's like asking an acquaintance why s/he is not in love with us. It's a feeling, it comes and goes and when it's not there, it's hard to understand what happened. Also keep in mind that no one has the same references and criteria as you, so his explanations, even if sincere and accurate, could very well not make sense to you.

I think it's good that you're here. We come with the illusion that DB gives us control over our sitches, but what it really does it help us get better without messing up the sitch further. So even if you're nearly D'ed, you still have some way to go. It saddens me when people go because they give up on the M, not really sharing their path from here to happiness. I find your story interesting and hope you'll stick with us and keep us posted. In fact, I can't wait for you to fall in love!