I've gotten some wise advice on here in the past (when I was debating whether or not to move out) that sometimes your sanity is more important. Something to think about. One can only live in the "living together but WTH is going on??" limbo for so long...
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final