Ugh. My STBX has hired a lawyer just to help draw up the paperwork. I have refused to pay for any fees for said lawyer, but am fully taking advantage of it when possible (i.e. "So what did your lawyer say about how to fill out this particular form..?" ) In all seriousness, though, my viewpoint is: he wanted it, he can hire the lawyer and pay for it, and I'll get the paperwork done when it's due but on my own timeline. He took a year to decide to actually file, I'm not going to rush on a day's notice to do the next step. My financial disclosure is due 90 days after filing (filing was January 2), I will turn it in this week - whether it's tomorrow or Friday, his complaining about it doesn't bother me.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
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