" will try to keep that in check. But that is kinda what i thought this forum was for."
It is. HOWEVER, you need to recognize that when you say something that is contradictory to what you want your W to believe, that means that your "changes" are fake and not lifelong. That the changes are just to get your spouse back and when they do return, you'll go right back to the way you were before.
If your changes were real about how you listen to her more now, etc., you wouldn't have even thought to make a scorekeeping comment.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
