Today my IC asked me if W would actually be willing to join IC. Not as MC, simply to help with my IC...and also to get an idea of if she is depressed too. My IC is not an expert on MC and I am not convinced yet that she will do the right thing. I'm sure I could convince W to go to a session. Does anyone have experience with this? Another question going around in my head is a "last shot MC" at some point. Anyone ever done that? Both things would not be good right now I think. It's way too cold right now but maybe I can warm W up a bit by continuing to properly DB...and I don't have concrete plans on involving W. It'll take time and really needs to make sense one day or it won't do any good.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15