Maybell-this won't be any comfort in your situation, but I have to tell you that reading through all your troubles with the hot water prompted me to go out and check the propane tank (this was always one of STBX's jobs), and low and behold it was at 10% and I was able to call for a fill in the nick of time. So....thank you..... Wish I could send a hot shower your way!
Regarding your H asking about the divorce -does he have a lawyer, or is he just expecting you to drive the bus?
