Thanks V. Yes, I hadn't thought of H as a vanisher. In our sitch, he has always been willing to speak if I asked. It was once I stopped asking that the contact stopped. I suppose I have contributed to the sitch by vanishing myself too!
A busy day for Toots - on the road by 8am - full day with clients, early dinner and home by 8.30. Day went well though. Heard back from the lady about the possible interim work. She has sent me an application form to fill in - I'll do that this week.
Volunteering at the bookstore in the morning, and signing my amended will in the pm...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus