Raliced, he is now resident with his father - nearly 3 hours away. But, yes, that was the verbal agreement - I got him every Wednesday nite. But that was when he was with her through the week. Now, he is with her on the same weekends that my children are with her. Any time I get to spend will be with both her and her 2nd ex-husband's agreement. Fortunately, SS15 REALLY wants to spend time with me, so we'll figure something out.
The reality is, it will be much less time, regardless.
Honestly, I've turned the corner on "woe is me" crap. Faith has a lot to do with that. My life lately has been absurdist theater (just this morning I got all the way to XW house and realized that my daughter's laptop was still at my house - she needs it for school - and I added an hour to my commute.) I am just trying to laugh at it. Keeps me a heck of a lot calmer when I realize this is just a storm that must be weathered.
Hey, annual bonus is coming in in 4 weeks, as well as annual raises. And an income tax return! Things are looking up!
Shakspr
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
