Maybell, the fact that he is declining the extra time with the kids will work in your favor when it comes to determining custody/parenting time. Get your fair share of child support so you can hire a babysitter to have the time you'll need for yourself. The hot water heater is a pain, but look at you taking care of business! You can do it!
PS I loathe the sight of my STBX too -- what is is with these crazy WAHs? Whereas I used to always think he was so handsome, now I fixate on his crummy beard, his tiny little man hands (the man has SERIOUSLY tiny hands), and his bad posture. Easy to leave all that behind!


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!