Sandi, the question was more sarcastic then anything. I wouldn't or couldn't stoop to OM level. That's not me.

I did have a great weekend. Went to the fishing contest. Got to see a lot of old friends. And hang out with the BIL and SIL. Who by the way are not happy with the wife. And are just plan sick of her childish ways. Whole lot of hatred going on in there family, consering the wife right know. I just tried to stay out of there angry comments. And told them she is on a journey and maybe some day she will figure it all out. Hopefully it won't be to late with the kids. I did get a ton of compliments on how happy and how I'm taking the high road on everything. And how I'm such the perfect father for my kids. Now that's what I want to be known for in my legacy of life.

Speaking of the kids. They are not happy with there mom right now either. She could have taken them to the contest or let her family take them. But didn't. The oldest did get out there because he made all the arrangements. With no help from his mom. The little two were pretty upset about it. I'm just kind of sick of trying to save the day for them. Not like I don't want every waking moment with them. But some times their mom just has to see there anger. If I come in and save the day for them, she never will see it. Like, I guess on Sunday their mom planned a last minute birthday party for her family for the boys. And the oldest really let her have it. No cloths were washed. They where already running late. And he let her know that in some not so nice cuss words how he felt. Now I'm not the one to let any foul language happen in my house. Ex specially from the kids towards their mom and dad. But this was at her house and I was not present. So let it fly young man. Obviously he has lost all respect for his mom. He is not that kind of boy. I just hope it won't be to late for the wife and the kids will lose all respect for her.

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M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced