What's ONE thing you could do TODAY to help yourself detach and reclaim some serenity?
ONE thing.
Can you drive into the driveway ONE TIME without looking over at BIL's?
Can you avoid looking out the window for one hour at the cars passing?
Where is ONE place you could go for 2 days to give yourself a break. Sounds like D13 is one smart cookie. She is taking care of herself. Her mama needs to follow her lead :-)
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson