This can't be the end! #2

[Mozza]

Oh Barry... A lot of us men on these boards can relate to you. I cringed as I read your entire story because I've been there too. Since you've read my sitch, you probably know about the Halloween episode where my WAW was out on the town dressed in some S&M cop costume getting drunk on jello shots surrounded by men in their 20s. The difference is that the craziest thing I've ever done was to try in vain a few passwords to get into her iPad...

You're so early in your stich. It won't be this painful all the time. It will remain painful, but it will not be that bad. I'm concerned however that you will become one of these LBS that mess up in real life and then come here to confess, as if it cancelled anything.

Yes, you've done a lot of awful things this week-end and you really need to get a hold of yourself, for your own good. You're not saving your M, you're not heading towards R this way. If I told you: your M will be saved if you stand on your head for 5 hours while holding a snake in your mouth -- would you do it? I bet you would. So now, I'm telling you: if you want a shot at your M, you need to follow the DB principles.

What are the lessons of the weekend for you? What will you do differently now?

We're there with you.