You're absolutley right. I dont accept resposability for her affair but yes wording in the way I have lets her off lightly. I have told her before that this is on her. I accept no responsability for it. I am melty man My head is totaly messed today. She has mailed me again a few times about nothing in particular which just keeps me dangling. Last week i got days of no contact. I dont know what the hell i am and until I'm away from her i dont think i will. How can i be done. I just cant switch off that this is my wife or is this just my ego again. She needs to work her own problems out. I cant keep being her support system.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on