It is tough, Mighty. Again, the circumstances you have....truly difficult.
Not impossible.
Every problem has a solution. Just have to figure out the options.
Start by making a plan. Some ideas?
The kitchen: do what it takes to get it complete. CHANGE the original plan. Since you wouldn't be there anymore, let go of what you wanted, save money, and just get it done to sell. Let someone in the business make the decisions, so it's not as personal. Again...this is obviously not what you wanted. But few things are the way you wanted in all this. You WILL have another kitchen of your dreams. The next one could be even BETTER. Who even knows??? Anything is possible.
Maybe you don't have to go all the way across the country to feel some relief. Maybe you could keep you current job if you had to. Open your mind and research other jobs just for reference. You just never know.
The thing is, Mights, stuff has a way of landing in front of us when we need it. Be open to seeing it. It's there.
It doesn't have to be all planned out today. (That's my awesome habit of getting too far ahead of myself, and wanting to process it faster than it takes....) Baby steps will get you there.
Here's the bonus....once you start making decisions, gaining momentum, even if the plans change 8,000 times.... you are going to FEEL stronger. You will FEEL in control. You'll stand taller. You'll take no chit. You own this life, M. I see what you're made of.
