I didn't say to be "hard on her," SRD. I simply said not to turn to her to soothe yourself (hugs, crying, long intimate talks, etc.) while she's still unrepentantly wayward.

Last edited by Starsky309; 02/09/15 03:26 PM.
M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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