Some other thoughts on some crazy stuff the W said recently:
During one of my rule breaking moments (right around BD#2) I asked the W if she would let me work on our issues. To which she said "you shouldn't have to 'work' on any issues with me. You should want to do them."
During our first MC session, when it was my turn to speak (mind you, I did not interrupt her when she spoke) I was saying something about how I felt that some of our problems is that we have different love languages. I said that mine was touch and hers is quality time. She then cut me off and said "See, you don't understand. I want it ALL!"
Does this make any sense?
Yes, both very much SCRIPT. It's very typical of the wayward mindset, whereby they basically take a "Great -- so NOW you're changing!" stance, resent the h*ll out of your positive changes. It's also very likely that by the time she went to MC with you, she was already "done" or -- at a minimum -- so emotionally connected with an OM (or the fantasy of one) that she's basically physiologically BLOCKED to you.
