If you truly ARE moving on, this is fine, SRD. But I don't get the sense you're done at all, and I just want to urge you -- if you ARE still trying to re-attract your wife, you don't want to turn to her to soothe you while she's still wayward. It may make you FEEL better in the short-run, but you're killing attraction long-term.
I am glad she seems to be being more honest with you, however.
