Here's some mind reading and imaginary thoughts: W is still planning a life with OM but needs to keep me around to take care of things until the RH sells. Has moved into the house so she can tell the judge that I don't live at home anymore so she should get the matrimonial home. She just spent a week in Cancun with him and has a beautiful life with him planned.
Alternate version: W just touched base with OM in Jan to tell him she's doing well and working on our M. Moved into the house to get away from the stress of the RH (which I know first hand is real). Just spent a week in Cancun with her girlfriends and is looking forward to seeing me again.
I don't know which is the real story . . .
And people wonder why I'm so pro-intel . . .
How can one possibly make potentially life-altering decisions in such a vacuum of hard data?