Continuing DBing...

[PeterV2]

Wonka, the RH has a buyer but they can't get financing unless it's 75% occupied, but right now it's only 36% occupied due to move outs and deaths. I'm working with referral services and others daily to try to bring more people in. It's a long sales cycle but since I'm in sales anyway in my business, I've take over the sales for the RH and just sign one person up last week.

Yes the RH is big stressor. The sale of it is supposed to close on Feb 27 but we still need 3 more residents to sign up. I have about 20 in my prospecting followup list that I call regularly to convince them to move in but it's a life changing move so people tend to take their time making up their minds.

Maybe I'll put off the R talk until the home sells.

It felt good to sleep in my own bed again last night. I slept really well. W gets home today. We'll see how well I sleep tonight. She told me 2 months ago that she's moving back home and when the RH sells I'll have to get myself an apartment. I didn't agree at the time.

Here's some mind reading and imaginary thoughts: W is still planning a life with OM but needs to keep me around to take care of things until the RH sells. Has moved into the house so she can tell the judge that I don't live at home anymore so she should get the matrimonial home. She just spent a week in Cancun with him and has a beautiful life with him planned.

Alternate version: W just touched base with OM in Jan to tell him she's doing well and working on our M. Moved into the house to get away from the stress of the RH (which I know first hand is real). Just spent a week in Cancun with her girlfriends and is looking forward to seeing me again.

I don't know which is the real story or it could be something in between. If it's the latter and I force her to make a quick decision she may not like the pressure and it'll push her away and we'll have taken a huge step backwards.

So I think I'll put off the big talk and just state the the limbo is very hard to take so I'm not doing weeknights at the RH to relieve a bit of my stress to see if that helps.