Seems to me that you could use 48-72 hours of NOTHING related to EXH. I remember we were making this suggestion a few weeks back.

Could you stay at your mom's for 2 or 3 days?

I have a spare room...albeit it's full of Barbies right now...but, it could still work.

How can you physically distance yourself from this situation?

I'm all for building the Great Wall of B around your home if it gives you some peace.

I know it's hard, but there has to be a way to create some distance/space from this man. At the very least, how do you avoid looking at BIL's driveway...

If I had this in my face 24/7, I'd go insane. Space creates some sense of clarity and sanity.

Is D13 onto something? Maybe not Cali...but out of the neighborhood? Just a thought. YOU cannot continue like this Mighty.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson