I am planning to bring up family therapy to wife tomorrow afternoon. She brought it up back in September when I was still in prison. I am thinking she might not be so receptive at this point, but I don't know that for sure and I am going to expect the best. I am going to ask her if she is still open to it, and if she wants input into who we choose for a therapist. If she is resistant, I am going to tell her that the kids and I will be going and I hope in the future she decides to join us as I think it will be very beneficial to the children. No pressure. Does that sound good to everyone? It is basically what Denise said I should do, and it seems right to me. My natural instinct and behavior would be to pressure the hell out of her, and I could easily do that with guilt, but I think I should do a 180 here...
H49 W48 She left 12/25/2013
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Wife moved out left 17, 18 an 19 yr olds at home when I was incarcerated for tax evasion to take a job and live 4 hours away.