Thanks gg yes made complete sense as does your approach on it, only so many times you can hold up the road runner signpost he has to want to follow it!
Not sure I should comment on desires returning (ducks)
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015