Bright - FB is not reality either but I am glad you are able to use it as a way to frame things for your own self preservation.

It is so hard to witness someone going through MLC. I thought it was just a funny way to label someone until I experienced it in my own marriage. It is far from funny and it makes you question yourself.

Everything you're feeling is okay. You are doing great and perhaps this is a blessing to have the chance to understand that it is not about you.

Hang in there. Try to slow it down a bit at work. Sounds like you had a rewarding and busy week. Maybe plan something nice for yourself in the next couple of days? You deserve to have some fun.

M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou