That's tough thinking. There's a huge difference if there's OP involved or not. It even hurts reading this stuff, it really hurts. How hard must it be...and it's all stuff that's still going to come up for me. Not sure if when there's no kids involved if a clean cut will be the best thing when there's no hoe. But hope is dying very very last... Interesting point you are making Mozza regarding the psychology behind why WAW are searching for reassurance and safety...
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15