Thanks for telling me this ^ . I am glad it helped you.
It was a gigantic help. I still am referring to some of the things I learned from it. I was explaining part of a WAW and their mindset to my parents today.
I wish I had fully learned and embraced the fragility of the WAW much earlier in my situation. I think I needed more understanding to slow me down and keep me from not accepting all my W was giving during our attempted reconciliation.
You're thread coupled with the passion trap has shown me a lot recently. Unfortunately it will probably be too little too late right now. Just this evening my W asked for my monthly net income in order for the L to figure child support.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15