Originally Posted By: sandi2
Thanks for telling me this ^ . I am glad it helped you.


It was a gigantic help. I still am referring to some of the things I learned from it. I was explaining part of a WAW and their mindset to my parents today.

I wish I had fully learned and embraced the fragility of the WAW much earlier in my situation. I think I needed more understanding to slow me down and keep me from not accepting all my W was giving during our attempted reconciliation.

You're thread coupled with the passion trap has shown me a lot recently. Unfortunately it will probably be too little too late right now. Just this evening my W asked for my monthly net income in order for the L to figure child support.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15