I think it was great, you having time with the kids. Everyone gets a chance to get away from the stress of what has become their lives.
I believe you need to get where you can set those self boundaries and follow them before you let W invite herself along. Just a couple of weeks ago you didn't read her well and nothing positive came of that. You need to be where you aren't trying to make things happen. Just be good being Tom, being with your kids before you do more. You get to control you and you can't ask for more than that.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory