I think, Live, that it shows it's not about us or the ow. Bc if it were, they would have made a choice without us choosing for them in that respect. It they KNEW that's what they wanted, they'd have been there in the first place, for us not to ask them to leave?

Maybe. At least, it helps thinking of it that way.

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