Ok Wonka, I may postpone my talk until I've read the book. I think we'll have enough to deal with regarding me moving back home. I just want to be home. Even if I sleep on the couch or in the spare bedroom. I'd prefer my own bed, but I'm willing to cooperate to a degree.

But yeah, Sandi, she'll be pi$$ed that I'm back home. But It's just sleeping anyway. My office is in the house and I'm here daily from 8am to 8pm anyway. I just can't continue sleeping at the RH. It may not sell this month either - we still need to fill 3 more rooms, but I'm working on that daily.

But even if she's pi$$ed that I moved back in while she was gone, I'm pi$$ed that she's called the OM last month. Even if it was an innocuous call, it's still contact and she claimed NC so she's still lying to me. Perhaps, giving her the benefit of the doubt it was a one time moment of weakness.

But when she goes on a vacation to somewhere in Cancun with girl friends that she says I'll never meet, it strikes me as suspicious. But I'm not going to let my imagination run away with me. I'll just deal with the spewing while I read the new books Wonka suggested.

She doesn't have to go back to the RH. I hired someone to do the nights, at least 5 days of the week. I don't mind doing Friday & Saturday nights. At least I'm sleeping at home most of the time. And I didn't hire the person on her payroll. I hired the person on my own company's payroll so she can't say I did an unauthorised hiring. And it's her head staff person, so she can't complain that she's not qualified. The lady welcomed the chance to make a few extra bucks and she does the morning shift once she's done the night (mostly sleeping) so it works out fine for all (except maybe W who'll be mad, but she's mad anyway, so no real change to the status quo there).

Last edited by PeterV2; 02/09/15 02:10 AM.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014