Mighty - from everything you've written, your H WILL see HWW for who she is. It's just a matter of time. Everything is 'rose-colored' at the moment because of the baby. But believe me, this chick will never change. Her real self will come back out, and to me, it sounds like he's smart enough to figure out who she is once she lets her guard down. Once this picture of her becomes clear, he'll wonder WTH he's been doing with her. His thinking is just SO clouded at the moment. Just no way to force him out of where he is right now. He'll figure it out for himself. In the meantime, stay strong. There is nothing wrong with you. Hugs, prayers your way.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15