I guess I wasn't prepared for a face to face encounter and i let her anger provoke me. I should know better. She tells me my pushing or my ignoring makes no difference. It's heartbreaking to see my older son 18 hurting. And I let the anger I have over her having OM around the little kids get to me also. I feel like I did good for 10 days and today went backwards several months


M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time