Thank you job and Vge, as always i appreciate ur time, support and comforting words.

So todays news - out of the blue i have received an email from h. It was just chatted, update about s18, our dogs, old friends and that he is looking for a new job as he has had enough of his (promotion last June which is when he left). He also said s20 had mentioned that i had run in with my b partner. That was it. Signed off his old "me x"

I replied - lovely to hear from you. Then wrote about s18 and was in agreement with something he wrote. Explained the sitch with b partner and that i am now homeless, jobless and familyless ( i know, 2 much info really but got carried away with hearing from him and he sounded in normal mode) said i missed the boys and feel so far away from them.

With in minutes i received a reply - full empathy for what i am going through, a well done for sticking up to a bully and whilst it prob made no difference to her
at least i can look myself in the mirror and know i defended myself and my children. He then talked about prediction s18 would ditch his course and move to him - he said both s can move in together as when they stay with him it looks like a bomb has gone off in a laundry ha ha ha - bet that pleases "her" lol. He hopes i sort something out soon and ended with Take Care, me x.

I have not replied - it asked no questions. I am not sure what prompted the emails, prob best not to question or analyze them, just be happy he has contacted me which suggests i am still thought about occasionally .

I hope i replied the right way - i did not ask questions, mention r or anything to do with him or his life. But as this is first contact since November ( and that was only short phone call about finances) i don't want to get things wrong, read anything in to it - i will be carrying on as normal.


Last edited by LouR; 02/08/15 10:49 PM.