Wonka, what do you me by "my needs"? That I need to get out of this limbo? That I need to live at home? That I need to have her reconcile with me? The I need transparency and honesty? That I need sex and intimacy? That I need for her to have NC with OM?

How far do I go?

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014