No, she's not said anything about the letter I gave her. For all I know it could have gone straight in the bin never even read.

I'd like to think there is enough in our history that she would have read it but no way for me to know.

Im doing my best to live what I said though, and I'd be fascinated to know what she sees/thinks in the limited contact we do have.

Its why I say she won't mention SIL letter, she hasnt wanted to speak to me about anything since BD and possibly since sometime before that.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress