Well I know as a human being I am not perfect, there are always ways to improve as a person. He was very happy with me before I changed, rushed home from work to be with us etc. This is where I am getting confused perhaps, my 180, personality wise, was because of the medication I was taking, he left because he could not handle who I had become, the moods, the fights etc, it wasn't easy and fun anymore was his words, and he gave up.