W might not even 100% realize how serious you are, and I hope you really are. She might say yes and then ditch out, or she might say no and then regret wanting to come back one day. I hope you prepare yourself for different outcomes.
I'm 100% serious. I should maybe tell her that specifically, just so she realizes it.
If she says yes then great. If later she ditches out then it's over, period.
If she says no, then I move on. If she has regrets later then that's her problem. If later she wants to come back then, depending on how my world looks at that time, I may or may not consider it. She would need to meet my standards so depending on where she would be at, it may be a lot of work for her for me even to consider it after everything that has come to pass.
Last edited by PeterV2; 02/08/1507:27 PM.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
