An ultimatum is a demand whose fulfillment is requested in a specified period of time and which is backed up by a threat to be followed through in case of noncompliance.
There's no threat to be followed through in case of noncompliance. In fact there's not even an issue of compliance or noncompliance.
I'm just saying I can't take the limbo anymore so let me know if you're willing to reconcile. Just make a decision one way or the other because I cannot continue in this state of limbo. I fear the continued stress of living in this state of limbo will compromise my health. Cortisol is a neurotoxin and has many negative effects on one's health. If I get sick and unable to work then that does neither of us any good. So in order to prevent my breakdown I need to move out of this state of limbo.
True the initial result of moving out of this limbo will be even more stress, but hopefully that will be short-lived and with a light at the end of the tunnel, whichever tunnel I end up in, I will be able to relax, knowing which path I'm on, and working toward that goal, whether it be a happy marriage, or a happy divorce.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
