Agreed. That will put immense pressure on her. Not only for the decision if she wants to R, but also during the process if she will. Wish you the best of luck Peter...either way I hope you'll feel better. Love is all about decisions sometimes. And you made yours, now she has to make hers, fair enough. You'll be fine either way! Problem with ultimatums is the following through. W might not even 100% realize how serious you are, and I hope you really are. She might say yes and then ditch out, or she might say no and then regret wanting to come back one day. I hope you prepare yourself for different outcomes.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
